These days, everyone hates big tech, and that’s often for very good reasons. You shouldn’t trust giant centralized companies that have collected a ridiculous amount of data on you. There are few re…
Not as dangerous as the hate trans people face every single day from the government, from media and from society at large.
People need a space where they can let their guard down. Creating that space is my goal.
The sad truth is, no space ever lets us completely let our guard down, but we get as close as we can.
unless you can guarantee a safe space in every aspect of life which is very difficult.
Communities trying to make spaces as safe as possible isn’t some slippery slope. This is either disingenuous or ignorant of the reality we face as trans folk.
There are no truly safe spaces for us. Even our safe spaces aren’t completely safe, because bad faith folk do their best to make it that way. Yet even so, many of us benefit from spaces that are actively inclusive, and remove bigots. Appeals to slippery slopes, or implications that we simply don’t understand how looking after our own needs is somehow bad don’t change our lived reality
I’ve been building and developing communities, queer and otherwise for decades. I’m also trans, and live it first hand.
The per user approach puts a cost on each and every user, and that cost can sometimes be too much for vulnerable folk dealing with harassment. Blocking the bigot with a throw away account after being exposed to the bigotry is pointless, because the account was going to be abandoned anyway, and you’ve already been exposed to the raw hate.
It makes it impossible to just have fun and enjoy your social media experience when you’re always waiting for the next bigot to drop it.
Instance level blocking resolves a lot of that.
Your theory of what will work just doesn’t cut it for many vulnerable folk, and it’s not going to start cutting it just because you want to debate the topic.
Nothing fundamentally prevents you from ignoring a whole instance.
The issue is that users aren’t “instance based” in the same way they are on the fediverse. On the fediverse, instances are communities of like minded folk, so all of the bigots hang out in bigot friendly instances, which I simply defederate from. If they join non bigot friendly instances, they get removed
On Bluesky, bigots don’t belong to a particular instance. They just pop up with throw away accounts and have to be dealt with, one by one.
You people have gotten so used to commercial bullshit that you don’t realize how much can be done with simple things.
I’ve been on the fediverse longer than you my friend. I don’t use centralised social media of any type.
The issue isn’t that I “don’t realise”, it’s that what I want from a social media platform isn’t something that Bluesky offers. You want different things to me. Arguing at me as if you can make me want the same things as you is a waste of both of our times.
Bluesky doesn’t give me what I need, and it’s ultimately that simple
So a person to the kill-list of which you are subscribed does that, playing the role of a mod
Yep. After the troll has trolled.
It’s reactive moderation, which leads to a shit experience for vulnerable people if that’s how the majority of moderation needs are met.
Because fediverse accounts are instance based, and instances have their own rules and communities, bigots tend to cluster with other bigots, and defederating those instances means that proactive moderation ensures that most of the hate coming from bigots never needs to be moderated, because it never arrives in the first place.
Anyway, it seems from the rest of your post that you aren’t interested in engaging genuinely, so that’s that…
Not as dangerous as the hate trans people face every single day from the government, from media and from society at large.
People need a space where they can let their guard down. Creating that space is my goal.
The sad truth is, no space ever lets us completely let our guard down, but we get as close as we can.
Communities trying to make spaces as safe as possible isn’t some slippery slope. This is either disingenuous or ignorant of the reality we face as trans folk.
There are no truly safe spaces for us. Even our safe spaces aren’t completely safe, because bad faith folk do their best to make it that way. Yet even so, many of us benefit from spaces that are actively inclusive, and remove bigots. Appeals to slippery slopes, or implications that we simply don’t understand how looking after our own needs is somehow bad don’t change our lived reality
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I’ve been building and developing communities, queer and otherwise for decades. I’m also trans, and live it first hand.
The per user approach puts a cost on each and every user, and that cost can sometimes be too much for vulnerable folk dealing with harassment. Blocking the bigot with a throw away account after being exposed to the bigotry is pointless, because the account was going to be abandoned anyway, and you’ve already been exposed to the raw hate.
It makes it impossible to just have fun and enjoy your social media experience when you’re always waiting for the next bigot to drop it.
Instance level blocking resolves a lot of that.
Your theory of what will work just doesn’t cut it for many vulnerable folk, and it’s not going to start cutting it just because you want to debate the topic.
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The issue is that users aren’t “instance based” in the same way they are on the fediverse. On the fediverse, instances are communities of like minded folk, so all of the bigots hang out in bigot friendly instances, which I simply defederate from. If they join non bigot friendly instances, they get removed
On Bluesky, bigots don’t belong to a particular instance. They just pop up with throw away accounts and have to be dealt with, one by one.
I’ve been on the fediverse longer than you my friend. I don’t use centralised social media of any type.
The issue isn’t that I “don’t realise”, it’s that what I want from a social media platform isn’t something that Bluesky offers. You want different things to me. Arguing at me as if you can make me want the same things as you is a waste of both of our times.
Bluesky doesn’t give me what I need, and it’s ultimately that simple
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Yep. After the troll has trolled.
It’s reactive moderation, which leads to a shit experience for vulnerable people if that’s how the majority of moderation needs are met.
Because fediverse accounts are instance based, and instances have their own rules and communities, bigots tend to cluster with other bigots, and defederating those instances means that proactive moderation ensures that most of the hate coming from bigots never needs to be moderated, because it never arrives in the first place.
Anyway, it seems from the rest of your post that you aren’t interested in engaging genuinely, so that’s that…
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And a ban for you