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    17 days ago

    Unlike you (apparently) I speak the language, and my whole point is that it’s not really a “slur”. You can feel as you want about it, you can even feel attacked by someone wishing you good day, for all I care. It doesn’t change the fact that the word itself is not really that bad. It’s not comparable to " fag…" In English.

    I see you are just a hateful person who is looking for reasons to feel prosecuted, at the cost of bending reality, so you can hate others. Suit yourself, I am sure your behavior will greatly help your community!

    Edit: I forgot. You are wishing people to burn or worse in this thread left and right, with a half-asses understanding of what has been written. You are nasty even IF someone was defending the pope. Take it down a couple of notches.

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      17 days ago

      Fuck off with you’re straighsplaining and gaslighting. I have zero respect for anything that emits from your shitty straight centrist mouth. You’re nothing but a privileged queerphobe with a redditesque demeanor.

      I don’t need you to tell me what isn’t and is a slur in Italian. It’s clear that you’re wrong. I know shitty English and Spanish speaking Straights too who downplay hateful behavior, and you’re exactly like them.

      I hope something horrible befalls you.

      Edit: Thank you for saying I’m nasty, though. I really try to treat queerphobes miserably, so looks like I’m on the right track.

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        317 days ago

        “I don’t speak the language, you do, but I know better than you what is and is not a slur because every language has to work the same”. Frociaggine is hardly a slur, it’s a term that can be used in many contexts without any particular hateful undertone, although this applies to friendly contexts mostly. “frocio” is closer to a slur because it’s more personal, although in Italian is very common for slurs/bad words to be used in a completely different way too (see for example use of “stronzo”) or without the bad connotation. In Rome this phenomenon is particularly common.

        You seem to have a colonialist mindset. Your culture/language apparently has to apply anywhere, no differences accepted.

        Also, I am a radical leftist who is a full supporter of LGBTQ rights, and I fight the Church in Italy for decades. So you can put down your strawman.

        Calling gaslighting telling you about a word that you don’t understand is the cherry on top :)

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          217 days ago

          I’m not reading an essay from a straight person who sounds like a redditor

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            417 days ago

            You are not reading at all, apparently. Shame, it’s useful sometimes. You should try.

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              217 days ago

              Your opinion here is unimportant. You’re not in the community

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                So your opinion on the use of an Italian word is not important, as you are not in the community (Italian speakers). Sounds good to me.

                (Obviously I consider your argument BS, but happy to apply it both ways).

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                  217 days ago

                  Anyone can easily determine it’s a slur. Pretty fuckin easy to verify that I’m right and you’re wrong.

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                    217 days ago

                    You can also verify that “mortacci tua” (literally: cursing your dead ancestors) is a slur/cuss, but in Rome it is used 80% as a friendly expression. Just to make an example.

                    Culture and language exist beyond your google searches…