• @mriormro@lemmy.world
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      432 months ago

      If you think romantic relationships are just sex+friendship then you’re probably shit at romantic relationships.

      • @Asafum@feddit.nl
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        Why? I honestly don’t get it. I want my partner to be my best friend, but I don’t think about my other friends sexually even if I do love them like family.

        I don’t want kids so I don’t think about partners in that respect. I do want them to be my last relationship though.

        Edit: I’ll leave it, but I just continued to read the comments and found an answer I understand and agree with. I just never put enough thought into it I suppose.

      • @DriftinGrifter
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        32 months ago

        i mean in fairness so is the guy from the greentext

    • Tanis Nikana
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      162 months ago

      I mean, I’m asexual and intensely sex-repulsed, and my wife is asexual too, and I am madly in love with her even after being married for eight years.

      It’s romance and friendship; she’s my best friend and wife. I’ll kiss her, hold her hand, rub her back and feet, buy snacks for her, loads of stuff I wouldn’t do with my friends.

      I mean, I bought a house with her. I wouldn’t do that with just anybody.

    • stebo
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      142 months ago

      bro can’t imagine romance without sex