I guess I’m a trans tomboy? I’m new to all this so I don’t have the lingo down yet. I have two ex-wives and I think I want an ex-husband too. But it’ll have to wait. I recently realized I need someone who sees me as a woman and that’s likely not happening anytime soon. Right now it feels like I want to wait until after bottom surgery. It’ll be a long wait, but I’ve decided not to let old hang ups and preconceived notions dictate my life any longer so it might change if I meet the right person. I’m not sweating it, though.