• Fest
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    1111 months ago

    thank you for telling us how good having a kid can be, when nost people just think of the bad that kids can bring to their parents life

    • @msage@programming.dev
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      511 months ago

      But he doesn’t have a kid yet, just an expectation.

      I’m all for optimism, but always be aware that children might not meet your expectations. There’s a family with 3 severely autistic kids, all of them need constant supervision and can’t do anything themselves.

      Be excited about kids, but also mindful that it is going to take a lot from your life.