

People can be to blame for their own pain. Does that mean they deserve no empathy?
If they are on the side of evil, gleefully snickering as brown people are loaded onto planes, then yes.
If they don’t want to feel the ire of our burning contempt for their low-trust, anti-social behavior, then they shouldn’t be doing it. Be on the side of good. Learn to be pro-community, or perish.
This doesn’t mean I want them to starve. Though, I wouldn’t be strictly opposed to some system whereby welfare is stripped from people who voted against it. Some people just gotta learn from consequences.
Are you disagreeing with… human pattern recognition?
I’m sure what I’ve said sounds like a lot of things; there are a lot of people out there who lie.
What I’ve described is pretty 1-to-1. If republicans are upset they lost their welfare because they were detractors from welfare, you know what we should say? “Damn, shouldn’t have voted against it then, stupid.”
See, the problem is you keep talking about empathy in the abstract. It’s very confusing. What is it, exactly, you want people to do? Because what we’re talking about is socially punishing fascists for being fascists. That is another 1-to-1.
I’ll lay an accusation: it sounds like you’re giving a rhetorical defense for bad behavior—and thus enabling it, very naughty—by trying to lean on people’s general discomfort with being too mean.
So, let’s be specific. Trump spent a lot of campaign time talking about illegals, he’s since mobilized ICE as the American secret police, and grandpa voted for him. How should we treat grandpa?