ya that’s what that last sentence is about, the whole conversation i was thinking about my late partner’s escort services and it clicked while i was typing that it could be what you describe just woo woo shit instead of massage. im slow sometimes lol.

e: got confused which pompous dick i was replying to. you’re still an elitist douche canoe tho rofl “just go take some media training before posting anonymously on a website” bro are you a fucking alien? do you hear yourself or understand how you come off?

i haven’t said a word about insisting on signal, or any app in particular, and i’ve never done so. what’s extra hilarious is what i actually did is i gave my phone number and email out to everyone so that they don’t need to install or register something new to contact me. that was the “app preference” that i “set an ultimatum” for, the other things everyone already has and uses to communicate with other people every single day. whenever i reached out, and i made sure to do so regularly, they would just complain that i wasn’t on facebook. so like no, but thanks for making sweeping assumptions about my personal irl relationships based on a few paragraphs on the internet you clearly didn’t read.

my point has been, this entire time, that if someone won’t communicate with you outside of a particular app, on the same device, using the capabilities that are a prerequisite to register for these apps; you don’t have a real relationship with that person. if that makes you feel things then those feelings are yours to examine and act on as you wish.

taking cheap personal shots in the hope that you’ll make me as upset as you are, as you beat your strawman, zero in on me and my relationship with my family in particular, and then call me irritable and incapable is as audacious as it is hilarious and pathetic. please keep trying to make me upset so you can justify your own shitty behavior because someone had an opinion that made you uncomfortable.

(eta the hilarious twist is they all have signal installed with zero prompting on my part, the entire divide on apps was strictly about facebook and its use being mandatory for me to hear from them)

it’s actually because i’m trans and their slavish devotion to christofascist propaganda narratives takes precedence over their relationship with me to the point that i gave up trying to get through to them because i can only take so much abuse in the name of love but hey, that’s a nice cheap shot you picked out in lieu of making a thoughtful contribution to the discussion. really says it all.

yours can be addressing what a smug condescending asswipe you are to well-intentioned folks who don’t think the way you do, for no good reason at all <3

“you must use this app and have your data stolen and be profiled by a corporate gigagiant if you want to remain in contact with the family because we can’t be arsed to fucking call or text you like was the normal a handful of years ago and is still readily available to all of us” yeah no fuck your weird moon-logic framing where taking a moral stand and refusing to engage with the shit that’s destroying society is somehow a selfish act. kill the techbro in your head.

well, it’s p clear anon thinks she’s a prostitute. this comment chain started with my observation that perhaps she isn’t one, and you chimed in where i was going back and forth with someone who agrees with anon and believes she is a prostitute. why are you shooting off your mouth about people saying wIlD tHiNgS and “correcting” people when you clearly haven’t bothered to understand any part of the post or the conversation?

if an app is the difference between someone keeping in touch with you or not, then you just aren’t that important to them. that’s the real issue here, everyone’s too afraid to find out how many of their “friends” and family members actually don’t give a fuck to include them in their lives when it’s going to involve a bare minimum of effort to do so. grow a backbone, stand up for what you supposedly believe in, and find out what you actually mean to people, instead of cravenly whimpering about how little value you think your supposed “loved ones” place on communicating with you. the implicit cowardice and self-hatred in this logic are disgusting.

jesus christ what a dumpster fire of a thread. time to block .world i guess, it’s hit terminal redditude.

ADHDer here. fuck this kid trying to throw us under the bus so they can excuse their sheer lack of a fuck to give.

yeah 1996 was only like 5, 10 years ago tops. right?

…right??

assuming she’s a prostitute he paid at the beginning of the “session”, and he mentions the session ends. her advertised rate is $200. she took his $200 that was implied to be for a service and anon did not recieve said service. anon was robbed. i don’t understand why this is a “wild” idea.

my take was that he hired an energy healer that also posts about kink, she politely snarked at him when he tried to explicitly buy sex, and it went over his head. also as i was typing this i realized it doesn’t really have to be either/or and maybe something went over my head as well.

i hang out with a lot of freaks. my late partner was an escort, and she wouldn’t take your money and then just not perform she’d just refuse your money. her shitty friend would go lock herself in the bathroom for the whole hour though, and after a while she quit getting clients.

hey at least ill cop to it and do damage control

Anon is very obviously describing a prostitute who lives somewhere where it is illegal and thus advertising with innuendo.

this is a possibility but it sounds more to me like he misunderstood a witchy tiktoker who also likes bdsm, which is VERY common in occult-y circles

Anon was turned down by a prostitute.

if she’s a prostitute then no anon wasn’t “turned down”, anon was robbed.

Also the only one calling women whores was you.

nah but thanks for letting me know you’re upset for some weird reason

i refuse to believe that most people are that pathetic tbh

yeah maybe hire an actual prostitute instead of assuming all women offering a service you don’t understand are actually just whores

anon deserves his blue balls

dammit i ate the onion, now i have to go tell the friends i told.

this is like insisting everyone adhere to strict dictionary definitions and never coin new terms, and if they did it must be because they’re too stupid and inferior to do speak “correctly”. cooking is an art, and art is messy. pull the stick out of your ass and enjoy the world man.

you mean gasp people from other cultures use language differently than the one you happen to be part of? and the language you speak has (shocker) different dialects? HOW DARE THEY.

e: just realized i didn’t understand the conversation. leaving it for being tangential relevance.