I just don’t get why anyone would say “trains” when “trans” is a letter shorter, and not considered offensive in the community, unless by context, in which case either “trains” or “trans” (or “transgender”, for that matter) would be being used offensively.

I mean, unless you’re punching down on trans people, why would you not just go with “trans”? I can understand the frustration of automod bans for a common shortening of “transmission”, or a very British shortening of “cigarette” - but that’s a solid argument against trying to get automod to police “part-time slurs”, not an argument for tolerating their use as slurs to somehow “further discussion” - if it’s clear in context that it’s being used as a slur, then drop the banhammer. If it’s a matter of people feeling safe to contribute, those who aren’t trying to make other users feel unsafe should be prioritised.

Can’t keep everyone happy, and you have to draw the line somewhere, otherwise there will never be an end to the “they’re always changing the rules” argument. If people are mouthing off with slurs, they’re not here for debate, they’re here to shut down debate. They’re not interested in good faith, they’re interested in seeing their transgressive words on screen, they’re interested in upsetting people, laughing at their expense, and moving on if they’re pushed. They’re bullies, and until someone pushes them off it, they will claim this soapbox when they find it.