You delusional passive aggressive people usually are though.

Only person with an ego is the guy telling me to look inward when all you have done since moment 1 was act like a fool. Also you have insulted me your just passive aggressive about it.

If you found any pessimism in what I asked it was put there by those who do not understand the fundemental meanings of existence and to think outside of themself. “We are given the gift of life” it’s part of a quote by Jane Goodall in it she asks how we will choose to use that gift. If you are one who self reflects, learns lessons in all things, chooses to understand the the reasons for peoples perspectives not always believing them but having a respect for the fact it’s different. Then one is living a life outside of themself and seeing this hurting world for what it is and chooses not to be apart of creating more pain and who then when sees others acting in a malicious way for no reason. Makes sure they get the point that they are foolish. Why? Because why not and who else. If more people did it there would be less jerks in the world.

I did not take it to personally I did what I always do when somebody behaves like a bimbo I hold up a mirror so they can see how they look acting a fool.

I do plenty of wrong and make mistakes it’s how you learn in life. Also no in this instance I do not believe calling you out for your first response being un-constructive rude and obnoxious was wrong because those things are wrong asking for help to figure something out and being new here clearly asking in the wrong group for kindness was nothing more then ignorance on my part one for expecting civility and two not knowing anything about this site so if did anything “wrong” it was simply being new to this site. That said I reiterate it says a lot about your “community”

Interesting

Naivety comes along with believing your nobody will ever figure out what kind of person you truly are. I have no fear of being myself because I know that who I am is not one who seeks out any kind of gratification but is thankful when it arrives. Living life expecting praise and reward for all you day or do is naive being good for the simple reason that it’s good is called being grown.

Only some one who does not understand the concept I just spoke of would redirect in such a way.

Feel free

Truth but if they could I would still call them on their crap.

Only when faced with bad attitudes, picking for the sake of picking or those who feel comfortable sitting in there own feces because nobody has ever told them their crap stink.

I find that calling people out for not behaving as what truth may not be a golden rule but is expected from another human being to behave like with a level of respect, dignity and tact. The only people in this world who do not change much from childhood are the same people who say “I am just mean that’s who I am” a very clear signal that they have not grown in life, ever self reflected or understood/understand there own problematic behaviors and how they impact others. Nothing pisses me off more then watching those who have no excuse but to know better behave like a child who has never dealt with true real life issues before.

Because human being should treat one another as human beings how is that a concept beyond your scope. I am guessing you have never seen somebody suffering in some way and said that a living breathing person I should do something kind even if it’s just for a fleeting moment because being treated like a person even just once in your life is better then never getting to experience what it’s like to be thought of and considered. Even animals will protect and sometimes die saving another.

Ok a very respectable thought on the matter and truly thought provoking response. Thank you. I am always looking for ways to improve how I think, approach a situation and understand perspectives of others this gives me something fascinating to consider.

I don’t see how we are like the other individual said multifaceted the being online with no true consequence for what you say is a true test of where your inclinations point toward if you are truly kind then who you are online would reflect that because you have full freedom to be as thoughtful as you want without feeling like your being to much the same can be said for those you are rude and obnoxious if being online only tends to bring that up to the surface more of you may be inclined to that then your in person mask lets on.

I would think they would be civil constructive ones not the drivel I got instead my fault for thinking people who are able to be un-supervised online would also know how to act like people.

This apparently the place where people go to get unhelpful angry advice or if they need to cry before a big scene just post on ask Lemmy and wait the gems will just start rolling in.

You are real fine bunch of folks I have to tell ya. You can’t start off by pointing somebody in the right direction in a kind way the first time know it has to be a bunch of trolling comments it says something about your community that the person being ganged up on is receiving no kindness from anybody here. What a joke!