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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Sekoiato196Yay! I'm a rule!
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    3 days ago

    I like this image :)

    (What follows is a rambly half-vent tirade about my own gender)

    For me a lot of my thinking ends up in “yeah I’m definitely a girl uggh that’s gonna be so annoying”. It’s not a choice and it’s a thing that requires immense amounts of effort… but everyone says it’s worth it, so I gotta drag myself along to avoid regretting it later (and it has been worth it, too). Meanwhile I’d already internalized that gender is bullshit, so I was theoretically fine with being a guy but apparently not in practice. Everything would be easier if I were a guy (or more generally cis, but it’s p hard to be a cis girl for me by now lol), but I’m not and so… incredible amounts of time energy and money it is!

    Anyway the point is: I like this image, because it just… cuts through all of that. No qualifications on it, just. Yay!








  • SekoiatoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comI Never Reply
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    29 days ago

    Messages from my friends are the one kind of message I don’t do this on, because I’m way too online and also doing anything mean to my friends makes me feel way too guilty (and I mostly fuel my motivation through guilt and fear of failure)





  • Sekoiato196Delusional mod rule
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    1 month ago

    On the second point… I remember when moss had to make one, because of exactly that issue.

    He should have told you that, it really isn’t a new thing. It’s also not an Ada thing, it’s not her fault and it’s really not unreasonable to expect mods to… actually be able to read all reports.




  • Sekoiato196WE ARE MOVING TO LEMMY.WORLD!!
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    1 month ago

    I’d be willing to do some “grunt mod work” for 196. Actual decision-making and community-building would probably take too much time for me to be reliable on it, but just dealing with reports I could do.