RedSeries (she/her)

🏳️‍⚧️ I am whole. You cannot redefine who I am.

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  • RedSeries (she/her)toLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldpaz
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    6 days ago

    If they could reconcile the “immigrants and trans people deserve rights” issue, maybe I’d consider talking with them, but to be friends at this point would be akin to me being buddies with a Nazi that is still bitter immediately after the war.


  • You deal with it by asking what the harm truly is and why the onus is only on trans people to placate cis people

    • Transgender people deserve to be able to have sex/do sex acts with consenting adults without having to wear a gigantic “I’m trans” sign that can subject them to harassment or assault. It’s not some secret meant to nefariously get in cis folks pants. This also applies to dating and I have words about that, so I’ll stop there.
    • If genitals matter that much, politely decline or ask what genitals the person has. Just because someone is trans doesn’t suddenly change that they are the gender they say they are.
      • As an aside, I feel like that cis man is just so weirded out by dick that he’s a breath away from chopping his own off when he sees it in the mirror.
    • If the genitals aren’t shown and aren’t used, why does it fucking matter? This is part of the same reasons bigots use to try and force trans people out of gendered spaces.
    • If someone failed to disclose some other feature of themselves that this cis male disliked, is that ok?
      • What if a cis woman had breast implants and didn’t disclose that?
      • What if a cis man had a vasectomy and didn’t disclose it?
      • What if a cis person wore a wig or makeup to appear more attractive? That sure seems deceptive.
      • Would cis folks get charged with a sex crime for any physical features they have that go undisclosed, even if they went unused or were irrelevant to the act?