• Feathercrown@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Although this is good advice, it shouldn’t be necessary to assume someone is having a bad time to be nice to them.

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        8 months ago

        That’s exactly what’s being said. The motivation to be nice is to assume someone could be going through something and act accordingly. That’s good advice, but shouldn’t be necessary. You should be nice for its own sake.

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          8 months ago

          I always try to be nice, but the motivation comes in handy when the person in front of you seems to be trying their darnest to be infuriating