I made two posts on !anime@lemmy.ml, neither are visible on both instances lemmy.ml are recommending.
beehaw.org has already become a much bigger instance and they ban lemmygrad, we’re already invisible to half the people using lemmy.
It will keep getting worse, at some point you’ll need to maintain two separate instance accounts and you’ll consider dropping one of them.
I would also caution you against nasty vote manipulators who always strive to manufacture conflict between people, like it is happening to you. I have many internet enemies who like to do this.
Yeah, some Lemmy libs don’t like what we have to say but instead of using their words they just hide behind the anonymous downvote button. I know that my comrades here would not downvote me.
Actually downvotes are not anonymous, they are federated and as such can’t be anonymised, it’s possible to know who downvotes if we went into the database.