So much work I underestimated it. Currently Petting dry wall on the walls, just looking at what is still not done yet and thinking about all the finishing with filling up the walls, screws, sanding, painting and then the floor has to be Sand and put in snd doors.
Im dead til I make this house livable. The only good thing is I have no rent costs til its done and live at my parents house
Take it one step at a time and don’t look to far ahead.
It’s like eating an elephant, it looks like a lot but if you do it one steak at a time it’s manageable.
Petting dry wall
Who’s a good plank? You are! You are!
Stay strong. I know someone who built his house, nothing went according to plan.
He’s still very happy now, but that was a hell of a ride
Well, if it’s your house, just know that many many people would consider themselves very lucky to be in your position. That may help keep things in perspective.
Are you building it on your own? Houses take a while if you’re doing that. There’s a local celebrity near where I used to live who is famous for nothing more than taking more than fifty years to build a tiny log cabin. It’s become like a meme there.
Baby steps. Don’t look too far ahead or else you get mad. Make a backlog and only take things out of the backlog and plan for work you can realistically finish in the next two weeks ahead. Then only focus on those tasks for those two weeks and don’t get distracted by all the other things that need to be done. Remember it’s a marathon don’t burn yourself out.
Found the scrum master
sounds like you need a better soundtrack. few people see the tangible results of their hard work.
Listen to music, audiobooks and/or podcasts. Hard labour is hard. Distract yourself.
First and foremost, I want you to know I am proud of you for taking on this adventure.
Building a house is no small feat, and yes, it will take time. Though it’s not like you’re sitting still—you’re proactive. Every day you are getting closer to your goal. Don’t give up and hang in there! We believe in you!
My husband and I built our own home as well. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. We picked rocks and poured our own concrete foundations with a shitty harbor freight cement mixer. At times I thought I was going to lose my mind, but we did it. Podcasts saved me. I would set up my work area for the day, pick a pocast and let my mind wander while I put up yet another peice of drywall.
Hang in there. In my darkest moments I had to remind myself that every action was a step forward. Even just running to the hardware store. It is all a step forward. One step at a time, one day at a time. We did it, and you can do it too. I’m rooting for you buddy! It does get better!
If so far your only issue is the work ahead then at least you are doing it right. My parents have a neighbor doing the same thing on land that was practically a swamp before. Guess who didn’t do proper water management before getting all their lumber delivered and dug and poured the foundation, those people SMH.
you’ve got to celebrate every little achievement. mentally break the project into bite-sized pieces
Make a Grover house.
Got a good example?
Holy shit…thank you for this. Load bearing drywall is amazing.
