How about the gender of the person posted be declared in the title? In the same way it is in other similar communities like !gonewild

  • Bearigator@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Doesn’t it being “fitgirls” mean we don’t need to confirm the gender? Guys generally wouldn’t be posted here anyways.

    • booba@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      1 year ago

      There was a girl posted with a penis, the rules explicitly permit this.

      The rules state misgendering is an “attack” and bannable. I thought putting gender in the title would help prevent incidents

      • Bearigator@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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        1 year ago

        Trans women would be gendered as F too though.

        Unless we make people mark their gender assigned at birth, which seems both gross and asking for people to purposely come in and make rude comments

        • MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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          This! But also, trans women have taught me that dicks aren’t a deal breaker. Sure, it might not be my first choice, but if she’s hot. Well, you know the old saying.

          If a bear’s hungry. He’ll eat.

            • Jimbob0i0@beehaw.org
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              1 year ago

              It’s really not though…

              A trans woman is a woman… it’s that simple.

              Would the OP permit a pre-op trans man to post here just because they are AFAB?

              Is a T required for just pre-op trans women or all trans women?

              Does forcing them to mark themselves out as different encourage isolation and further the difficulties they are going through?

              • Rengoku@lemmynsfw.com
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                Trans woman is not a woman.

                If a trans woman enters the female bathroom as my daughter in my area, I will fight back by any means necessary.

        • fututio_enjoyer@lemmynsfw.com
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          1 year ago

          Then indicate sex and gender? Most people have a sexual orientation, I think, even if others have “gender orientation”.