• Whirling_Ashandarei@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Ok I’ll bite: what’s stopping you from learning to two step? That was the first thing I listed. You have access to the Internet, you can get really good at dancing just watching YouTube and practicing what they do. Less fun initially I’m sure, but doable.

    Also my God does dancing make women more interested in you if you’re a dude. It’s not magic where they’ll suddenly flock to you but it’s a lot easier to buy a girl a drink after you’ve made her laugh or spun her on the dance floor. So, there’s some extra motivation if it applies.

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      11 months ago

      All the alcohol in the world wasn’t able to push me through that insurmountable mental block.
      I’ve since quit drinking, and I’ve also quit trying to force myself to be a person who can dance. It’s just not in my bones.