girl asks him why he’s mad, he gets mad. You were played son
Any girl who would take the initiative to say something like this to a guy is into him. If she wasn’t, she wouldn’t have been vocal about it, she would have just properly avoided him.
Absolutely not. Women are people the same way men are. We ask stupid questions that we didn’t think through purely out of curiosity, and then realize how rude it was on the drive home just like you do.
She may be, but if she is, that’s a godawful opener. I have 0 rizz but something like ‘I like your shoes’ or w/e is never hard to pull.
I think you got it. Time to pull out the the dress fedora and ask er out!
“dress fedora” 😄
a real lady’s man right here…
Holy shit there are a lot of incels here.
No. It’s just an equivalent to ‘why don’t you smile? You look so beautiful when you do’
You’re just wrong lol. Asking someone why they don’t smile more is fucking patronizing. Asking why someone looks angry all the time is about asking to learn more about them, as they have genuine interest in the person.
Do you honestly think a woman would ask a man why they look angry all the time if they genuinely believed the man was simply angry?
Both can be patronizing.
Do you honestly think a woman would ask a man why they look angry all the time if they genuinely believed the man was simply angry?
And yeah, why not?
If you walk around work looking mad all the time people think you’re busy and leave you alone. Win win.
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Ah, yes, the Costanza method
I see you, my rbf brother.
Some people just don’t know how to start a conversation and will say anything that comes to their head.
Or, they’ll be like the OP and just ignore a new coworker entirely and never even say hello, which is also kinda rude and makes people think you’re mad all the time.
maybe they’re introverted and want to avoid small talk? can’t blame them
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Why do you look so mad all the time?
Just because you’re bad at smalltalk doesn’t mean you’re entitled to mine.
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Why is being bad at smalltalk being selfish? You mistake skill for intent, and that’s pathetic social skill. You shouldn’t be giving anyone advice.
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Sure, but it’s still kinda rude and makes people think they’re unfriendly, even if they don’t mean it that way.
is it really rude to just exist
I guess fuck me for being shy, right? How rude and selfish of me to just keep my head down and do my job.
Same. Outside from a quick hello (and I mean quick) to people I’ve deemed friendly, I’ll only talk if the job I’m doing demands it. I won’t be rude if someone asks me something, but the answer will also be quick and to the point.
Or maybe they have no opportunity to interact with the new coworker.
She took an opportunity to walk by, OP could have done that on the first day.
I mean, she also apparently hadn’t said anything up to that point.
Maybe because I don’t have to meet and greet every person in the building?
some people are just really good at masking
Why do you though.
Because I’m angry all the time
Maybe some case of resting bitch face?
“I hate it here”
A lot of people in here are the weirdos at work, it seems. Just say hello to new people and get it over with. Actually, you dont even need to say hello. Just not and smile.
*nod?
*nut.
Correct 👍
Narcissistic will NEVER give up conceding any irrelevance of their ego.
A coworker of mine said something similar. I keyed his car.
Real big of you. You must be the most confident person ever to do something shitty like that… Just telling the person you didn’t like the comment or the tone it was told to you would’ve sufficed.
I am like 90% sure the other guy was joking.
I think they just both have different types of autism
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She’s flirting you idiot
That’s a shitty way to flirt
beats the shit out of you, steals your wallet, and calls you racial slurs
ohh he’s just flirting that’s how boys flirt
you know not every time a woman interacts with a random guy is flirting
stabs you in the throat, eats your sandwich, burns your home “oh that must mean they’re into you”
Next time with Anon: “Never does anybody talk to me or show any interest in me! Also people discriminate against me, just because I am awkward in conversations!”
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