• Cris@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I’m gender queer, and am biologically male, but presented femininely and used she/her and a feminine name for 7 years or so.

    The first time I experienced a good friend seeming like we only interact regularly because they’re interested in dating/hooking up with me warped the way I relate to other people and really helped me understand why women are often so guarded against advances. Men and women deal with very different issues, but both are very real. It’s nice to see people talking about the issues men face also. The way our society treats people on the basis of gender sucks dogshit :(

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        1 year ago

        Lol, I don’t generally describe how I got where I am with gender, but the context is relevant to describing the experience I had with that friend

        But if I had a yu-gi-oh card it’d have some dope art 😤 I want a sweet-ass mech monster