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Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 1 year ago

Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.

www.nytimes.com

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Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.

www.nytimes.com

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Men's Liberation@lemmy.ca · 1 year ago

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feminism@beehaw.org

Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

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You take one cherry-picked anecdote and then generalize that to the entire population. You are the problem.

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