Perhaps you’ve noticed. We have reached a tipping point in the country over tipping.
To tip or not to tip has led to Shakespearean soliloquies by customers explaining why they refuse to tip for certain things.
During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, customers were grateful for those who seemingly risked their safety so we could get groceries, order dinner or anything that made our lives feel normal. A nice tip was the least we could do to show gratitude.
But now that we are out about and back to normal, the custom of tipping for just about everything has somehow remained; and customers are upset.
A new study from Pew Research shows most American adults say tipping is expected in more places than it was five years ago, and there’s no real consensus about how tipping should work.
I think you just have a structural/functional view of the world that is fundamentally incompatible with how I view it.
Maybe you see the world on How it Should work, not How it Does work. Those two are not incompatible, unless you confuse one for the other.
What I’m saying is actually a bit more involved than that:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Structural_functionalism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_conflict_theory
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_theory
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_value_(economics)