Hello, I(31M) guess I will begin from the start of this relationship. I became friends with Kay(24F) who is a is an ENM relationship with Jon(24M). Kay and I really hit it off and began being intimate. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. While Kay and I were chilling Jon came home and was so upset he could barely contain himself. Kay’s demeanor changed as well. I just ignored it. The next time I was going to chill with Kay, she couldn’t because Jon needed to “apparently process something”. A week later I met up with Kay and she said she was overwhelmed and couldn’t hang out as often. I just took it at face value. I haven’t seen her since. She continues to text me, and insists she wants to see me. I am definitely confused, but should I be worried?
J and K have or had a thing going? What is enm?
I think ENM stands for ethical non-monogamy. So a consensual open relationship.
Looks like J is not so consensual.
Or he is open to seeing other people himself, but not really to his partner seeing other people.
Yes, they’re in an open, committed relationship. That’s basically what ENM is. But there’s supposed to be communication.