• Judge_Jury [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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                1 year ago

                So, what did you telling this feminist about your self improvement look like? Did it involve saying anything about the supposed nature of men and/or women?

                Because you’re doing that here, and “self-improvement” has become synonymous with evo-psych quackery like Jordan Peterson’s

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                    1 year ago

                    I was trying to become socially a good person for friends

                    And you failed.

                    to become socially favourable towards girls

                    And you failed.

                    since I was a whacko with borderline (not fully) redpill beliefs

                    Those never went away.

                    aka not giving a F about her

                    Your self-congratulatory apathy toward other people is self-defeating and the reason you continue to fail. congratulations

                    Does that sound like lobster boy’s 12 rules and other evangelist Christian preaching to you?

                    There is no functional difference. If you came up with that shit all by yourself you’re just working extra hard when that garbage is already there for the taking.

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                    I was trying to become socially a good person for friends, to become socially favourable towards girls

                    Those are one and the same thing. Women aren’t some other kind of beast that you have to learn about, they’re just people that you need to unlearn some distinctions about if you ever want to connect with them. Same goes for men.

                    When I hear another man talk about men being chimps when chasing women, I hear excuses for stereotypical and often violent behavior

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            1 year ago

            men also get to speak on behalf of all women

            I am a man. I will speak on behalf of men that are not you and tell you to fuck off.

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        1 year ago

        This is precisely why I find myself always taking a step back whenever I end up aligning with the socialist left on social politics.

        Sure, sure, you are as leftist as they come, butt

        Everytime it is about cis het men self improvement or working out

        Or you pretending it’s all you’re doing when you write Elliot Rodger tier shit like this:

        no social consideration for men

        I can already see the Petersonian crocodile tears. up-yours-woke-moralists