I’m looking for communities and websites where controversial issues are neither censored or insta toxic flame wars. instead looking for something that is formatted for open in depth discussion. You might say “you have arrived” here on Lemmy, what else is out there?
You haven’t “arrived on lemmy”. Stuff aren’t being cencored people just hate the people who randomly start fights in bad faith and call it a debate. Or chronically online people who for long haven’t touched grass who randomly DM you and say that they want to debate.