Image description: 4 panel comic titled If Trans People Said the Things Cis People Tell Them.
Panel one has an androgynous individual talking to a woman. The androgynous individual, “To me, you are 100% a girl, you know?” The woman has a look of confusion and disgust and responds with, “Wow, thanks.”
Panel two has the same androgynous individual speaking with a man. The androgynous individual is saying, “It’s so incredibly you look just like an actual boy!” The man is rubbing the back of his head in nervous confusion and says, “Yeah, I… am one?”
Panel three has the androgynous individual speaking with someone of ambiguous gender. The androgynous individual says, “I would never have guessed you were cis! Congratulations!” The other person is looking at them with an expression of confusion and concern.
Panel four has the androgynous individual speaking to a man. The androgynous individual says, “I think you are so brave for being who you are.” The man is frowning at them.
The comic is credited to @assignedmale on Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr and SophieLabelledraws on YouTube. Their merch is at assignedmale.etsy.com and Pateron is at patreon.com/sophielabelle
I hate hearing it’s brave though. It shouldn’t be. It really shouldn’t be and every time I hear it I’m merely reminded that the person saying it exists in a world where they can see that transphobia but they do nothing about it. It’s almost like saying “wow you’re gay/trans? I’m too much of a coward to do anything that would ever make the world better for people like you.” It’s platitude and more telling on yourself than anything.
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What you say is fair and makes a lot of sense.
I’ll tell you this though - and this is coming from someone who just learned you’re a Jew - you’re incredibly brave for being a Jew.
Thanks, I was born this way.
I guess this one doesn’t really work so well since I very much aspire to be that Jew with a lit menorah in a window with a Nazi flag clearly in the distance. I am who I am and I take pride in it target on my back or not.