This is a photo on my (f28)Instagram. My brother in law (m42) reacted to it in DM, and said the above. I feel I replied normally, but now my sister (f39) apparently saw the message and is saying that I engaged in hot discussions with her man! I am myself married and I feel so bad now. I told my husband who said I did nothing wrong. Any idea how I could approach my sister ?
I would have interpreted it as “well duh, where would I be hiding a bra in that picture”, but I guess it’s open for interpretation. In either case the problem here is his message, not your response. It’s pretty clear you’re not exactly eager to engage.