This is a photo on my (f28)Instagram. My brother in law (m42) reacted to it in DM, and said the above. I feel I replied normally, but now my sister (f39) apparently saw the message and is saying that I engaged in hot discussions with her man! I am myself married and I feel so bad now. I told my husband who said I did nothing wrong. Any idea how I could approach my sister ?
I can’t know what it’s like to be a woman, but I can only dream that my reply would not have been so polite.
Like if you said nothing in reply and just sent a screenshot to his wife saying “you need to talk to him about this” would that have been too impolitic?
I feel guys like this are just divorced dudes in waiting anyway. Immature, out of control, selfish, unaware. I would find any degree of harshness conscionable.