A bit hyperbolic but something I have noticed in a lot of this parenting style tips are that either the kid needs to be padded up head to toe on a leash glued to their parent 24/7 or they should be allowed run wild screaming at the top of their lungs at restaurants and museums.

There is very little in-between, unless you find the sane person in the comments. Kinda like a lot of things nowadays, sadly.