• Mac@mander.xyz
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    2 months ago

    No, this is a reasonable reaction.
    Any balanced person would feel this way.

  • nobloat@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Meanwhile my autistic ass just sits for a long time until they look my way and I wave awkwardly hoping I didn’t do anything wrong

  • Avg@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    In Brasil, if you don’t call your waiter/waitress they are not coming to your table.

  • MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 months ago

    My step-dad would raise his hand and say “Teacher!” when they were in ear-shot.

    Never got why my mom hated it. She’s more of an “Excuse Me!! Let me tell you my life story while you refill my water! No ice please!”-lady.

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      You’re blaming the workers for the system that keeps business owners from having to pay them, shoveling the responsibility into the customer? They don’t expect it, the system keeps them relying on it.

    • Joelk111@lemmy.world
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      I am not able to snap so I cannot snap at service workers. Feels bad to learn I’m not an American.