• ameancow@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    It really betrays a porn addiction when you compartmentalize people and couples by the races involved. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re some kind of nazi (but it IS 4-chan so there’s a strong chance) but there’s a huge amount of racism in society that’s just objectification and fetishization.

    It’s okay to appreciate particular races or features or particular aesthetics in a partner, it’s not okay to get hung up on it or fixate on it or get lost in some kind of porn-fantasy for what kind of relationships you look for. It’s weird how hard it is for people to find balance and nuance on this topic.

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      20 hours ago

      It really betrays a porn addiction when you compartmentalize people and couples by the races involved.

      Someone’s never been to the southern U.S.

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          16 hours ago

          If you aren’t saying “mixed race = porn”, then I actually don’t know what you’re talking about.

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            4 hours ago

            Then you really, really need to work on your reading comprehension. Not being internet snarky here, if you legitimately got that message I feel like you didn’t read my comment at all, or you’re deliberately choosing to misinterpret something that most people would understand.