So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • kat@orbi.camp
    20·
    7 days ago

    I feel like talking amicably just falls under being friendly by definition lol

    • Fat Tony@lemm.eeOP
      5·
      7 days ago

      “Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”

      But if I sign it off like this. That would MAKE the message pretty clear, right?

      • kat@orbi.camp
        9·
        7 days ago

        Not really, I would take it at face value. Unless the person sent some really strong signals. And even then I would just do the conclusion that requires the least assumptions, which is just friend vibes.

        But you can still be explicit afte the fact. I get is hard tho, since you have to be pretty vulnerable.

      • Pennomi@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        7 days ago

        Yeah that’s a decent way to start. Giving compliments is a great way to flirt! Saying something like “That was a great conversation, you’re easy to talk to” might even be a bit more flirty without putting yourself that much further out.