They’re not all bad, just every now and then get one of these nuggets. Also, they’re basically the only break we get from two small children, so It’s a comicated situation, though I have been trying to come to terms with the idea that at least one kid(and me) have some stuff going on they may not accept, and while I May tolerate it more for myself, I have to be willing to add some space to protect the kids. I don’t want to get into specifics but I hope that makes sense.

I don’t want to part with them, but I know what my child might be feeling, and I really want to prevent any confusion or doubts that I may have had for lack of options or knowledge.