• MrSpArkle@lemmy.ca
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    7 days ago

    I was on a dating site many years ago. Never got messaged, rarely got responses.

    Met someone in real life, set my profile to “in a relationship”. Got like 5 messages within a week.

    Definitely a bit of vetting going on

    • shastaxc@lemm.ee
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      7 days ago

      You set your status on a dating app to In a Relationship instead of deactivating it. You got likes after that because you’re now passing search filters for a different demographic: nonmonogamous people