• Valmond@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    Yes exactly.

    Especially things you cannot change, but I guess that’s the thing making it even worse.

    • medgremlin@midwest.social
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      20 hours ago

      The thing you can change is your outlook and interpretation regarding the immutable parts of yourself. Your attitude about something is almost always much more important than the thing itself when it comes to relationships.