• grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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    1 month ago

    Thank you, you’ve summed up a good clash of feelings around these terms with great economy.

    When I (male) use the term wife to describe my relationship, I don’t want to contribute to this feeling that I’m pulling for the default in an exclusionary kind of way. Like contributing to this cultured of presumed heteronormativity.

    Better in my case to leave a little unsaid, so as to make room for other kinds of relationships.