• A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world
    182·
    1 month ago

    “Dude who’s in denial about being bisexual has hobosexual relationship with another man, is shocked that they developed feelings”

    Yeah that 100% checks out actually

        • AbsentBird@lemm.eeEnglish
          38·
          1 month ago

          ‘we let’ women have rights? Women fought tooth and nail for years to get those rights, and assholes are still trying to claw them away; fuck, there’s places in the US right now where women are dying because their access to healthcare has been sabotaged by a supreme court that reinterpreted the constitution to remove their rights.

          • Omniraptor@lemm.eeEnglish
            21·
            1 month ago

            “we” in this case could be the American government in general and the supreme court specifically. The fact that such an important right was “granted” by a decision of nine random schmucks and can be taken away by another decision (rather than being a law) is not a great look for that government.

            But you’re right that it was not the best phrasing. Activism is extremely important esp on more local levels

  • Nojustice@lemmy.mlEnglish
    86·
    1 month ago

    I can’t believe no one else said this but I feel it’s necessary…

    Fake and gay

  • VelvetStorm@lemmy.world
    50·
    1 month ago

    Can’t tell if oop is transman or transwoman or cis guy on hrt. No matter which one they are still bi and should just learn to accept it.

            • macmacfire@lemmy.ml
              6·
              1 month ago

              They’re saying in this case, seemingly, he was born male, but a trans femboy can exist.

            • Enkrod@feddit.org
              2·
              1 month ago

              In short: Femboy is about presenting as a very feminine man, men doing that can include trans men.

              Slightly longer: It’s why there are different categories for sex, gender assigned at birth, gender identity and gender expression. A femboy would identify male and express feminine. The opposite is a tomboy, somebody who identifies as female and expresses in a masculine manner, both are not necessarily linked to the individuals sex and/or gender assigned at birth.

              Trans refers to a different gender identity than the gender assigned at birth and doesn’t come into play here.

    • Dogiedog64@lemmy.world
      41·
      1 month ago

      Anon is a closeted bi and open femboy, and just doesn’t want to admit he likes it. Meanwhile, he’s totally fine being someone’s FB for free rent, but also feels guilty that he is kinda messing with his other friends in the meantime.

      Basically, Anon is a moron.

  • itslilith
    36·
    1 month ago

    Is self-identified cis people getting HRT a thing? I’m genuinely curious, I assume it’s all DIY, right? In any case, that was a wild ride

    • psivchaz@reddthat.com
      36·
      1 month ago

      Yeah a cis dude might get testosterone if his normal testosterone is low. I assume there’s something similar for women. I don’t think that’s what this guy is talking about though.

      • EldritchFeminity
        31·
        1 month ago

        It’s fairly common for women to start taking estrogen post menopause because their estrogen levels drop, and that can cause issues like losing bone density. I believe HRT was originally developed specifically for that reason, and it was only later that they tried using it to treat gender dysphoria.

        But in this case, they specifically call out being a femboy on HRT, which I think pretty clearly says that they’re on estrogen for that female figure. Whether it’s DIY or just informed consent is anyone’s guess, though.

    • Omniraptor@lemm.eeEnglish
      19·
      1 month ago

      wonder how some of the greedier telehealth hrt providers (not naming names but it’s all on Google) would react if someone straight up said “I’m cis but want to be more attractive to a certain demographic, gimme the femboy pills”. I’d give 70/30 they’d eventually agree.

      p.s. personally I think hrt should be maximally cheap and sold over the counter.

    • recklessengagement@lemmy.world
      11·
      1 month ago

      I know a straight cis femboy who wants to take HRT - I dont fully understand it, but I respect its his right to do what he wants with his body and identify however he pleases.

      Some people just want more customization options I guess

    • CrystalRainwater
      3·
      20 days ago

      Think some HRT femboys do consider themselves cis. At that point tho imo it’s just a matter of personal labels since they are definitely non conforming

    • davidagain@lemmy.worldEnglish
      28·
      1 month ago

      Straight men have prostates too. If the other guy has great technique, who knows what could happen!

      In other news, greentexts are sometimes a bit of a wild ride, and I maintain that the best ones always are.

      Humanity. We’re a diverse bunch. We really really are.

      • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldEnglish
        7·
        1 month ago

        If the other guy has great technique, who knows what could happen!

        I’m a man. I can make myself cum. Therefore, I must be gay.

        Humanity. We’re a diverse bunch. We really really are.

        I agree with the sentiment, but the idea that a dude - particularly a young horny dude - isn’t going to cum with a fucking sexy whisper in his ear is crazy. Never even mind the Kinsey Scale, this seems to deny the idea of being horny.

        • davidagain@lemmy.worldEnglish
          5·
          1 month ago

          In other news, my friend got me to try carrot in his meat and potato pie, and I was all “keep that orange shit off my plate” but he was persistent and I caved and tried it for the first time in a decade (with a big chunk of meat) and I didn’t hate it at all.

          I shouted at him when he fed me “some kind of exotic shredded fruit peel cake, try it, it’s really moist and tasty” and when I liked it admitted it was carrot cake. I shouted a lot, and he just laughed at me and offered me another stupid delicious slice, the git.

          So I think the lesson we all learned is that when I think I can’t possibly be persuaded to try something and that I find the very idea unpleasant, I might well be wrong. Quite, quite wrong.

          So, Jamie, wherever you are these days, sorry. If I had my time over I’d give it a try. The internet agrees with your point about who gives the best head, and I hope you’re happy somewhere with some lucky guy who is indeed having the Jamie “I wouldn’t just blow your dick, I would fucking blow your mind” treatment. Seems stupid in retrospect not to have said yes.

          You did say “call me when you’re drunk and horny enough”. Well, today’s that day, but I don’t have your number and there’s no way I’m involving our parents in a decade-overdue “Does Jamie want to come round to play?”

        • davidagain@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          1 month ago

          I’m a man. I can make myself cum. Therefore, I must be gay.

          Once I did it with my right hand, but I’m left handed, if you know what I mean. You really notice the dick in your hand when you do it that way, I can tell you. I learned some things about myself that day. Things I didn’t tell my homies, despite them all having dicks that I had very much not been thinking about, but which must inevitably have similar fundamental characteristics.

      • davidagain@lemmy.worldEnglish
        5·
        1 month ago

        Are you saying that to experience a whole new type of sensational overload you would need to let go of your preconceived ideas and just let what’s gonna happen happen? Give in and give it up? It’s a lot to ask, a lot to ask.

  • ikidd@lemmy.worldEnglish
    22·
    1 month ago

    I’m so confused. I think I’m just going to go soak in the tub and stare at my toes.