I moved out of my parents house and drove from Florida to Minnesota less than two weeks after top surgery. I can’t say I recommend doing that. I didn’t exactly tell my parents I was having top surgery, I just told them I was out of town visiting friends for a week and I think they might have found out the first time I went swimming shirtless, lol. But I was also an adult at that point and had long ago realized if I’m doing something expensive and important for myself, don’t ask permission. A minor is not legally allowed to do what I did and that’s probably for the best, your point still stands, lol.