Everyone I know, even more “progressive” people, treat me like a damn alien for not prioritizing getting a new car since mine died over covid.
Why does nobody blink an eye at this habit people have of just… Sitting in their car in the driveway? Its not on, there’s no music, they aren’t leaving - they’re just sitting there for an hour or more. I see it fairly often, but if I mention it being odd people look at me like I’m dumb. Are we really THAT car centric now that it’s this normalized to be like “fuck my living room, fuck my TV, fuck my couch, I just wanna sit in my car all day?”
I can’t say that I see this a lot but I can tell you why I and others I’ve spoken to do it. I’ll leave you to ponder and extrapolate reasons.
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It’s quiet.
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No other humans are talking to or at you.
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Quiet = bliss.
If you have to spend 3 hours a day in your car to avoid people, you need to speak to a professional.
Therapy is expensive, time consuming and tragically filled with social stigmas. People are coping with the thing they already own in the only way they know how.
That doesn’t make it healthy. As someone who is hyper isolated due to living on a pension, it only compounds itself.
3 hrs is a lot. I think my top time was 30min. Still. It’s cheaper than therapy.