To everyone I once told that I’d marry again, I must admit that I wasn’t truthful. Perhaps it was peer pressure, or the sense of being in a group, but the reality is that I don’t foresee myself marrying or having children again. Modern-day relationships seem fraught with pain, and many enter marriage for the wrong reasons, like family pressure or the allure of a big wedding. While it may suit some, it doesn’t for many.

What I truly desire is a loving and trusting partner, someone who can be both a friend and a lover. I want someone without preconceived notions about marriage or family, who communicates their needs and is willing to make sacrifices, knowing I’ll do the same.

It’s vital that I share this perspective at the onset of any future relationship. My apologies.