• HubertManne@kbin.social
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    6 months ago

    Its happening now though. Its like being anxious about walking down a dark alley because you might get the shit beat out of you as opposed to being anxious about the medical bills you will have while your getting the shit beat out of you.

    • androogee (they/she)@midwest.social
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      6 months ago

      They specifically said they were talking about how bad it would get in the future, and the future is definitely not happening now.

      But also, pay attention to the word “usually” in the definition i quoted.

      If you think that one cannot be anxious about something happening right the fuck now, then you don’t know much about anxiety. Which is not a slam, I’m mostly jealous.

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        6 months ago

        Im starting to get it. the phrase just to me sounds like its more about a possibility but the replies make me get it. I definitely get anxiety from current circumstances although I guess both my wife and I were discussing that with our depression. Its not like it can be cured because it comes from our current circumstances and often you think about like diagnosis and medication and its like how is that going to help when there are external factors. We think of it as more anxiety/depression for no reason or for reasons that should not cause them.