• SlinkyKitten@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Being in chastity is fun, though it’s important to communicate well and to take care with it.

    I love being in my cage, but my goddess specifically didn’t want to consider herself the keyholder.

    That’s a significantly more intense step up than either of us want at present (I’ll now that we’ve been in a dynamic for over a year, but have only relatively recently added sissy exploration to our bdsm/service foundation whilst I’ve been exploring my own gender identity).

    We have found a suitable compromise of me being the deciding factor of when I’m exploring being locked up, but when I do so I give her the key so I don’t know where it is and that I have to ask her for it.

    It’s definitely a happy middle ground for us with both of us enjoying my chastity, and the little something of sissy approaching their goddess and asking for the key to unlock.