Hi all, I was wondering if anyone young-ish (late 20s) with ED(?) has had tips for getting taken seriously? I’ve been to 2 urologists and each one pretty much walked in, said it’s neurological, and prescribed pills. I’ve gone from being able to have sex for hours (even if not fully erect) to basically losing all energy as soon as I cum which feels like it’s more physical than anything but dunno.
I’m autistic and sex life isn’t something I normally talk about. My wife is my first sexual partner since we met a few years ago and it used to be that I’d go until she wanted to stop. Generally, this would cumming, but continuing with a half limp but still usable dick and it would get hard again while continuing. Now, I just cum once and it’s like I hit a wall energy wise and I go completely unusably flaccid. It can take a good while 10+ minutes if not more to get fully erect again. If this is the normal way sex goes, that sucks but I’m disappointed
You can always try blue chew or some other med. I don’t usually have issues getting it up but sometimes I just want to go for an extended sesh with a friend I haven’t been with in a while and it keeps me hard and also prevents me from cumming so fast. Exercise might also help if you find yourself not as active as before.