• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I’ll also add another major sign is if you don’t know their irl names. I have close friends who I met over the pandemic who live far away, but we knew each other by name and hear each other’s voices. That’s a big thing. Your Twitter/tumblr mutuals or people you regularly interact with on Reddit/Lemmy are people that terminally online people will think of as friends rather than “no we’ve never met irl but we play d&d together or have a book club over discord”.

    The other big thing is whether or not you go to irl events. Just literally being somewhere that’s neither home nor work/school helps so much.

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      1 year ago

      no we’ve never met irl but we play d&d together or have a book club over discord

      To be fair, DnD is one of those things I would never ever even consider playing over discord unless I considered you a very good friend, and even then it’s begrudgingly. Discord dnd sucks balls.