Father of the Year, this guy.
JD is an outhouse of a human being but this sounds like regular parenting shit that occasionally happens. I have a nephew who has definitely needed to be told to shut the hell up occasionally.
“Shut the hell up” is not an appropriate way to quiet a child, from infancy to adulthood. It’s rude and causes more issues than it solves.
Probably not ideal parenting but this is pretty low on the fucked upness meter. Especially for the couch fucker.
I remember being noisy and loud while was dad was working and he shouted “shut the hell up”
It wasn’t out of anger or hatred, I was just being an annoying kid running around the house.
It’s fine.
How many children do you have?
Is that you JD?
I have a child of my own and work in direct patient care at a pediatric hospital, it’s not appropriate.
How many brain cells do you have?
Normal amount
I Don’t even tell that to a dog.
As a father I often find it difficult not to swear in front of my children. However, I never swear directly at my children. Very inappropriate use of language , that to me signals potential abuse. Can you imagine how a father like that would respond if his child uses the same words at him?
The internet: Fucking shitass swear words lul. They’re just words like any other.
Also the internet: Think of the children when you say naughty bad words! Also show them all the tits and naked europe but never violence or death either!
the Internet is not one person
The internet is 3 of the same people on every site and lurkers lol.
That’s really missing the point. I don’t see the big issue with swearing in front of children. Hugely different dynamic if you swear directly at children.
The question you should ask is: is the type of language I am using with my kid likely to cause a fight if I had targeted at a stranger in a bar. If the answer is yes, then it’s inappropriate.
This is not it.
This is wrong. But it’s good you talked it out and learned better, now.
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I posted this over on /c/news and honestly, I don’t think it’s that bad. Dude gets a call saying “hey, wanna be my vice president?” and his 7 year old won’t shut up about Pikachu? “Shut the hell up for 30 seconds, daddy is on the most important phone call of his life” is really not that crazy of a thing to say. We don’t have kids (yet) but I feel like every parent has had that moment in their life, no?
When you’re a Dad, you need to remember that you’re always leading by example, and so it’s important to rise to the moment, especially in those “most important” moments. You are yur child’s universe, and how you speak & interact sets the tone for this future interactions.
Patience and respect are learned skills. Kids learn by watching.
So, you’re a parent? And you have never once had a bad moment like that with your kid? Like never yelled at them in a high stress moment even once?
Recognizing that it’s a moment of weakness is what’s important, don’t brush it off and pretend it’s perfectly fine. Recognize it as a slip up in a moment of stress.
Right. I don’t think he’s bragging about this? He’s sharing it because it’s a humanizing moment
Oh, don’t misunderstand me. I’m human, there’s no question I was surly to or around the kids in a moment when my mind was elsewhere. When it would happen, I’d try to make it a learning moment for myself and do better, maybe make a teaching moment for the kids too. The point would be to reinforce that what I did wasn’t okay, and not an example how we wanted to talk to each other.
What I certainly wouldn’t do is casually relate that incident to a reporter the way Vance did, suggesting that ‘shut the hell up’ is a normal interaction in my family. That’d be weird.
The fact that he was fine sharing this story publicly and didn’t see a problem says a lot about how he treats his kids behind the scenes
IDK, it’s relatable. It’s probably the most non-weird thing about him I’ve heard this week. Or, like, ever.
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