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  • yoriaikotoWplace FindingsTrans rights are human rights
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    23 hours ago

    Defo is worthy, seeing many pride flags painted over swastikas gives feeling of safety. Seeing pride flags, characters, icons, not destroyed (or at least currently fighting), in a place commonly known for being full of racist, is like one more breath while drowning in hate.

    Seeing trans right massive flags (and small ones too) gives euphoria too!

    Totally worthy :)





  • yoriaikoto196punished rule
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    3 days ago

    Yes, but I mean, some system like “self harm” would lower Your priority score, -2. Similar as alcohol overusing could make You problems with medical treatment for liver damage or smoking cigarettes would delay/cost lungs treatment.

    You knew the risk of overusing these, be responsible now.

    Obviously smoking cigarettes would NOT affect medical help in case of car accident, as not related.

    ImHo it is ridiculous to overdrinking for many years and then expect to get liver transplant in priority over common citizen who got badly stabbed while robbed. (I’m no medic, unsure if You can be stabbed badly enough to require liver transplant, it’s just an example).



  • yoriaikoto196punished rule
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    4 days ago

    Very hope insurance companies check these details after any incident to refuse payment.

    Very much hope countries with free healthcare and law force to use seatbelts could refuse treatment such brave persons.


  • Thx for reply, with so many upvotes already, super valuable info from many!

    Wearing big signs. Super bad for sake of both haters and chasers. lol nupe. I think we all agree here.

    Genitals are often quite important in most sex activities, and imHo there is nothing bad with liking cute dicks and vaginas. It is about physical parts in crotch, not about gender I feel, identify, express self as. Even more, it has nothing to person being respectful or not to the partner.

    For gendered spaces like toilets, do we even talk about them, or relations between two adults, that both wants to be con?

    I believe we are of what we feel like, what our minds are thinking, how our bodies do look, something something genes, how we presence self, how other see us. If someone wants to be an asshole and build relations or even marriage with kids based on how the partner look, totally ignoring the character of other person. Like, for own social status only, what’s then? Do You want to force them into liking my personality too? (Sure, humanity expect us all to note my personality too, but some just wants to be assholes and ignore some parts of me). What about family being very important to someone, with own kids, “made” in traditional way with partner, in the primal natural way. Then vasectomy is also a problem, lacking breast of mother may be too. Do You want to force these soon-to-be-parents to surrogacy or adoption? Or maybe respect their way of life?

    All Your mentioned what-ifs may be problematic to some, even big no-no barrier. In very same way as dating trans persons. That’s why I’ve asked to talk first before acting. No, not by signs, or arm band (lol).

    Call me old, but that’s why we used to have “no sex until 3rd date” rule, to get know other person at least a little.






  • Pardon’ if You find me rude, I’m noob, trying to learn stuff. Aside to things happen in UK, that have lot trans-oriented problems recently, thing could happen anywhere…

    But as possible transgender myself (I’d call myself late-egg), I would find myself in 3 situations at meeting new persons:

    1. We are not into any romance/sexual stuff, just friends, any gender stuff is not related, we don’t talk it at all, whatever. Still wouldn’t want to befriend bi*ots, but that’s another topic.

    2. We found each other on sex-finder app, we both knew we want to go into bed together and have fun. In this case now, if I keep hiding my trans-gender secret, wouldn’t that be non-con to my partners? should I respect them as other humans? As much as I have rights to live my life in my way, they have same, with both side respect?

    3. Similar in romantic relations from a date-app or some other pick-up line in a cafe’, if I’m about to build some relations, based on trust, how any of us could build trust with hiding such info?

    Both 2 or 3 are questions related to hiding if asked moments, aside to other person respecting me being “uncommon” or not. Other one could even very politely and friendly refuse going deeper in relation knowing my secret, and imHo that would be ok too.

    Personally, I would feel bad if I had to cheat that on partner, either sex or life partner.

    How do You deal with that?



  • yoriaikoto196simple rule
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    7 days ago

    Doubt.

    I agree to the part of thigh, is loved by most… then I know some with foot fetish, that claims it is ok. But show me anyone but a priest with knee fetish. Ha


  • yoriaikoto196PNG rule
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    8 days ago

    Do You mean when single post contains many pics? I can browse them all on old too, there are small text buttons for previous and next, above pic.

    Agree, You cannot make a post with more than single pic on old, text input field have only manual code input, instead panel with icons… It’s like using linux instead mac ;d