Thadah D. Denyse

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Cake day: August 29th, 2024

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  • Thadah D. DenysetoTransfemI got called a lesbian slur today
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    21 days ago

    There’s a whole sub in R*ddit called r/ewwphoria that is basically filled with these kind of interactions.

    It is disgusting behaviour, but it’s totally understandable why something awful like that would feel euphoric because it validates your gender identity in a twisted way.

    You can feel offended and validated at the same time, they’re not mutually exclusive. I hope you are in an otherwise safe place and can get lots of compliments that are not demeaning like that though 💜



  • Thadah D. Denyseto196closeted life rule
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    1 month ago

    If you want to restart the workout, go for it! But only if you feel like it’s something you want to do and the action or results will bring you joy.

    You don’t have to prove anything to anybody. Your identity is only yours to decide and enjoy!


  • Thadah D. Denyseto196closeted life rule
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    1 month ago

    The feeling that you’re not able to show your real identity to the real world is pretty telling by itself. Being in an unsafe place where you can’t express yourself properly is not the same thing as not being trans.

    Remember that it’s not clothes, hormones or our looks what makes us trans, but that deep, often unexplainable feeling that something is wrong. Please stay safe and take care. If you need someone to talk to, I’m always open for dms 💜.




  • Thadah D. DenysetoTransNon-trans trans songs
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    2 months ago

    Be Home Free by Whitewoods always made me think that the singer was singing to my inner self, even when I was in complete denial.

    I don’t think it’s supposed to be a trans song but the themes it touches upon are so similar (mirror memories, a cell with a key, forgetting your name tonight…) that I couldn’t shake the feeling it had another, more subtle meaning.

    It really made me realize how stuck I was in regards to my identity and helped me crack my egg.


  • Not only that, they are basing the ruling on the concept that the protected category of sex is based on reproductive organs and/or chromosomes. Where does this ruling leave intersex people at then?

    As always, it’s about cis people seeing binary in everything and erasing the existence of people through these stupid and malicious rulings.

    They knew where the complaint was coming from, they knew the implications it would have, and they decided to rule in their favor anyways.












  • Olentzero is no ordinary old man that brings presents to kids on Christmas, he’s a charcoal burner that is also a Jentil, a giant in the Basque mythology.

    He was originally a pagan, but some say he stayed behind and converted to chrisitanism when he saw Jesus about to be born, while the other jentilak escaped. Other less favorable interpretations say he converted and betrayed the rest of the jentilak, showing the people their locations so they could be killed.

    All these are modern interpretations for Christmas because afaik originally he was supposed to be somewhat evil.

    Source: am basque