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Was reconnecting with a cousin of mine, she and I got along well enough in youth but didn’t live in same city. We both had a kid at this point and started connecting because of that.
I was early in transitioning. She was in the process of her own diagnosis. Brought up some of our similarities and got me thinking about it more seriously.
Did some self testing online and was like “ah, so probably yes”
I found a fitness trainer who also happened to be autistic, agender, and have other mental health credentials. On our first consult, among other things, just deadass said I should test for autism because I was autistic according to them.
So anyways I got myself assessed within a few months of those two occurrences…. Back in December.
Here I am, AuDHD and trans (statistically accurate) and I lived past 18 (yay!)
I expect to see blue ones on lawns, fences, and littering the city over the next year or more. That’s common here. The other parties clean up pretty fast. Conservatives and their supporters trash the world.
tamato Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Am I expecting too much from my friends, or is this just a natural drift?English5·4 days agoYou got me with
I’ll call him Steve since that’s his name
tamato Transgender•Where does victorious Canadian leader Mark Carney stand on LGBTQ+ rights?English8·7 days agoBut he has a NB kid who’s vocal and he supports his kids. He’s being very careful of wording, keeping it broad and generic that everyone has rights. Right now the trans community here locally is supporting and confident we aren’t in immediate threat from carney.
Frieren 💖
tamato Thomas the Plank Engine•This beamed into my brain in the middle of my dreamEnglish1·11 days agoDefinitely cuet
I agree with you.
I don’t mean to hurt anyone with me shortening my words, I’ve been getting lost in my desire to write more and liked how I wrote it.
I’ve been on my own rough journey, I was lost in my armor well up til I hit 30’s, I remember the moment I saw my self for the first time and everything started making better sense. Going out there and becoming myself was just that. I had to go out of my comfort zone, challenge my fears and make that next step to figuring myself out and becoming me. My life didn’t start when I got married, when we had our first kid. It started when I came out to myself. All those were just layers of connection on top of my self. I didn’t know my self, so I just used my 「Autistic High Masking Magic」 to make a shell and navigate the world with no self guided direction.
<3
tamato Animemes@ani.social•Pope new anime waifu. [ARTIST MADE THIS ART BEFORE POPE DEATH, RIP]English12·15 days agoHe didn’t get much time with the new waifu apparently.
I looked much closer to the image after comments and the other hand was no good.
Have not found any such word
Premium comment, and yes to much of this to some variety.
Go out there and become yourself. Being the new you and taking care of that new human, whether better self care or different self care, is a learning curve but the best way to go forward.
Favourite characters in Mario kart for the both of you?
I’m a sucker for Rosalina on a fast bike.
tamato Canada@lemmy.ca•N.B. comedian fears being 'locked up,' cancels U.S. showsEnglish26·17 days agoRightfully so.
Got to attend a small Gala last weekend, wife and I got to go femme together and have a great time and dress up.
Picking back up where I left off some years ago, working my way through more WEDNESDAY CAMPANELLA and CAPSULE, including other projects by the two individuals from CAPSULE. I hadn’t taken the time back then to go through more of their music to add to my library.