I’m in the exact same boat right now! My wife got me out of the apartment in women’s clothes for the first time a couple days ago, and when we bumped into someone she was in school with, she introduced me as her spouse and we had talked about using the word wife, and i thought I’d be fine with it, but I was shocked by how much it stung! Dysphoria is weird, and I keep saying meat was not meant to think lol

I am in a state of absolute shock. I can’t believe there are people who hate pointlessly in this world /s

I’ll take a look at that brand! Thanks!

The trick of wearing the front of the gaff lower than I expected seems to have done what I needed! I thought ordered a hipster gaff, but it appears I got something closer to a slingshot🤦‍♀️I was intending to return it if I didn’t like it after trying it on for a minute, but because of my hyperfixation, it’s been wedged up my ass for days, so I guess I have a really minimal gaff now!😅

I’m pretty sure I’m good on that front lol

I was this close 🤏 to going out to costco tonight tucked in my gaff and a pair of my wife’s bike shorts, but I was too nervous about a ball popping out and being rather obvious and chickened out

Done, done, and done, just not in that order

YAAAAAAY! Congrats!

I wanted to propose to my wife for maybe 3 years before I did, but finances were a big problem for us. Eventually, I just said fuck it and got the nicest ring I could afford and proposed the same day it arrived. If you both want to get married, the time is right. You probably won’t get a mystical sign from the universe that the time is come. Good luck! ❤️