Sometimes I go out because I get carried away, dress and do my makeup way too nicely, and I don’t want to waste it. But because I’m actually pretty tired, and it’s cold outside, I just suffer through a couple of unnecessary hours of being out, checking the time constantly, then go home and take it all off.
hazel
I have a crush on TotallynotJessica.
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hazelto Casual Conversation@piefed.social•What's your favourite lemmy community and why? English2·8 hours ago💙
hazelto Casual Conversation@piefed.social•What's your favourite lemmy community and why? English3·8 hours agoFunhole is such a comforting little refuge. It does feel a little like I’ve stumbled into someone else’s friend group, but I’m very happy passively enjoying the vibe.
Hypothetically, if someone’s more like a 5 and always on the verge of a meltdown… Like do I– do they get 50% care, love and understanding?
hazelto Casual Conversation@piefed.social•Weekly thread - How is your week going?English3·23 hours agoThanks. Can’t wait to try it!
Well I thought it was “collar” on first reading, and was disappointed that it didn’t come back in the latter panels.
Downvotes are almost never used correctly. People think if something isn’t for them, it deserves a downvote. An inevitable bit of Reddit culture that comes with that user base jumping ship. Nonetheless, it could only cause the death of a community if the people in that community don’t choose to spend time there.
When I browse my subscriptions, it doesn’t matter if the posts I want to see score too low on the vote scale to be discoverable in All. I’m going to see them, because they’re what I came to see. I went looking for those communities, and curated my own feed. I think if more people went looking for stuff they want to see instead of letting their client show them whatever is doing well on votes, the votes wouldn’t matter nearly as much.
@TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Are people really suppressing posts on niche communities like this? I almost exclusively sort by post age or engagement rather than votes, and I’m on an instance that doesn’t support downvoting. Downvoting isn’t something I’ve thought about since my Reddit days.
How did you manage to explode a baking dish? I’ve exploded my fair share of untempered glassware, but I thought baking dishes were immortal.
hazelto The Guardian - US@ibbit.at•Charlie Kirk’s shocking killing sets the stage for a federal crackdownEnglish2·1 day agoOh no. The famously chill, live–and–let–live Trump administration is on a repressive warpath now. Because of the Charlie Kirk thing. Fuuuck.
They know not to deadname me when talking to people outside the family. They don’t extend this courtesy in private. I perceive this as selective denial. I’m not close enough to them to care any more about this than I do about the way boomers treat me in general. I just think it’s weird.
A wanna be a stick. A brittle, boney little twig girl. This may partly be in rebellion against all the people who’ve told me that no one’s going to find that attractive. I want to be okay with having a body type that’s not for anyone else. But I still do want hugs, and people don’t like hugging sticks, so I dunno.
hazeltoFunhole@lemmy.sdf.org•Charlie Kirk’s Horrific Killing and America’s Worsening Political ViolenceEnglish6·2 days agoThank you for creating nonviolent content!
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Some days it’s just nice not having to see it.
hazelto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is your most "Fuck you, this is actually awesome?" take?English4·3 days agoBrave and contrary.
I was only kidding 😳
I don’t care for numeric scales of prettiness either.