Audentes Fortuna Iuvat

  • 20 Posts
  • 250 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: August 25th, 2024

help-circle







  • See, this is why I keep struggling when I’m telling someone about something I heard on here and they ask if it was on reddit

    “No… it was on erm… well… it’s this other place. It’s not reddit… thank God it’s not reddit but it’s called erm… well it was Mbin and then that shut down and then it was kbin and now I’m on fedia.io but actually it’s lemmy… but it’s part of the fediverse… I think? it’s… yeah it’s like reddit basically but it’s not… anyway this asteroid is going to zip by the earth later today. Here’s a live youtube page that’s tracking it” 🤣



  • This feels like the sort of thing a scumbag boss would make a giant print of and hang in an office where he underpays everyone and forces them to work a 60 hour week. I have had bosses like this. I once had a boss force everyone in his little sweatshop business (hidden in a basement in the UK) to write him a grovelling letter begging for their job. He demanded this by speakerphone from his office on the other side of the world. He would have loved this cartoon.



  • I’ve recently started to understand how his supporters take him seriously and it’s a remarkably simple reason, which is also why it works so effectively. It’s because supporting him is part of their identity, not part of their beliefs. Many people have complicated and often uncomfortable relationships with their parents. Many would even describe their parents as terrible, flawed people with many awful qualities. However, if a stranger was to openly attack them verbally or otherwise, these same people would leap to their parents defense instantly “Don’t be talking s**t about my Ma”, that sort of thing.

    Well, the astonishing trick Trump has pulled off is to somehow con millions of people into feeling the same way about him. That blind loyalty to a parent figure is almost impossible to break. They are Trump’s children. No amount of ridiculing him or crimes that he is revealed to have taken part in will ever have any effect. It’s also not the only reason. There’s a heck of a lot of “sunken cost fallacy” at play here too. It’s hard to change tack when you’ve chosen to follow someone like this and invested so much of your time and identity in it. This is where the cult like aspect kicks in. It’s hard to leave a cult.

    This dude really nails this concept…









  • It’s not that. I’ve always felt more comfortable when there is a lot of information in front of me (hence my original question). I love shopping in large supermarkets for example. All those packages and brands, colours and words. It literally makes me happy and I often walk around just smiling because my brain feels peaceful when there’s lots happening all around me. The caveat to that is if I’m being compelled to do anything in particular with this information by anyone, like a teacher or a manager. So long as there are no bad consequences if I don’t take in all the information and process it according to someone else’s rules, then it’s blissful. It also makes me basically unemployable, which is why I’ve mostly run my own businesses all my life! 🤣 Also, because of this, I didn’t have a very good time at school, specially at a time when no one knew about ADHD. The habits I’ve described may look like addictions but they aren’t. It’s just the way my brain has worked for over half a century now.