Nordic trans woman, stereotypical programmer. Loves long walks on the beach?? Way more cute than she should be. Determined to live her life finally.

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Cake day: March 7th, 2025

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  • I’m getting ace vibes here. Maybe they don’t like dating because it has always lead to the other party wanting sex, which could have lead to trauma, too.

    Having a crush says ”romance” to my ears but for an ace person this doesn’t necessarily translate into sexual or sensual desire. How are they with emotional intimacy, e.g., sharing the details or their trauma and triggers?

    Just my pure speculation as a very sleepy outsider. Good luck to you both <3



  • I knew one but I didn’t speak to him. He came out as bi to my sister and I suspected that he had a thing for me, but I’ve never been into guys and avoided him. Then at uni a gay man tried to get me in bed. This was before I transitioned so, ehm, I guess that I must have had a vibe. I’d like to rant about why we were not open back then but it feels off topic. Wish I had had more positive representation, could’ve avoided spending two decades in hell.




  • That sounds pretty good actually, especially the part about feeling relaxed. I relate a bit too much too these memes and my girlfriend has AuDHD but isn’t taking any meds for it, and I think she seems completely normal, she’s very similar to me. So maybe yet again I’m not like most people?

    I’ll bring it up with my psychologist. (Just hope it will not end up with me being discriminated against, the system here is very ableist).










  • Facial hair gives me dysphoria so I remove that, and I don’t have any shadow left these days. Except for facial hair I’m mysteriously blessed with a typical female body hair pattern, like a lot of other transfems I know (but certainly not everyone). I have less body hair than my sister. But I like body hair on women and don’t shave under my arms or my pubes. Just trim a bit under the arms.






  • I met a girl, I got a crush on her, I asked to meet, and she not just agreed to meet up but she dressed up real nice and gave me compliments like I had never heard before (I’m mtf and new to being pretty). And then we had more dates and each one was better than I could ever have conceived it would be. And we have the best chemistry ever, I had no idea that I could be this compatible with someone. Yeah, so uh, I’m in love with her. She says allll the time that I’m beautiful. And she wants to see me again. What could possibly be better. I never had this before in my life.